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This page is dedicated to everyday family and personal issues of women. The women must write their everyday observations and experiences. Also write completely on one side of the page in clean writing, whether it is incoherent.

AJWA DATE AND ITS BENEFITS:

My father is suffering from heart disease. Is ajwa date is useful in this disease? (AALIA IMRAN’LAHORE)

ADVICE: There are many kinds of dates, but Ajwa has preference. Hazrat Bibi Ayesha Siddiqa رضی اللہ عنہا narrates that dear Holy Prophet ﷺ said that in this great Ajwa date there is cure of every disease. If it is eaten empty stomach, it is antidote to the poison (MUSLIM).  It gives benefit in deadly disease leprosy if seven days seven Ajwa date is eaten daily. Hazrat Saad bin Abi Waqas رضی اللہ عنہا narrates that “when I was ill Holy Prophet ﷺ came to me and he put his hand between my arms, its coolness spread in my entire chest” then said “he has suffered a heart attack, take him to Haris bin Qaldah. The hakim should give him to eat seven crushed Ajwa dates of Medina with seed”. Ajwa date is gift of paradise. It has given preference over other dates on having more nutrients. Its taste is unique and delicious. In the dates of Medina black ajwa is the best of all. Its seeds should not be thrown rather crush them it is useful in many diseases. If ajwa nut is burned and its toothpaste is made, it is better for teeth.

HEALTHY CHILD:

My child is four months old. I want to give him solid diet. Give me advice that my child remains healthy. (ASIFA’KARACHI)

ADVICE: Lady! Persuade your child gradually towards the food. Give him well smashed banana to eat. Let him lick egg yolk. Give him semolina pudding (sooji ka halwa) to eat. Give him sago seeds (saAllahana) cooked in milk. Make khichri of green gram one spoon, rice one and half spoon, one chicken piece and add light salt and feed him. Give a piece of bread in his hand. Likewise you can give him wheat porridge to eat. If child’s digestion is perfect then don’t give him gripe water or any other tonic without doctor’s permission. You can give honey, juice of fruits and biscuit too.

TROUBLE BEFORE MATERNITY:

I am going to deliver my first baby. My belly’s color has turned livid. There are black stains on my entire body and freckles on my face.  (MEEM –QAAF’GUJRAT)

ADVICE: Pregnant women have such issues in last weeks. Actually they are produced due to dryness of skin. You don’t need to worry. Apply on your face the mixture of pinch of turmeric in one spoon of yogurt and add few drops of honey in it. Wash your face after a while. Aloe Vera substance is best.  Apply olive oil by adding few drops of rose water in it on body before taking bath. Then after bath add few drops of baby oil in rose water or simple water and apply it on the belly and body so that skin gets soft. This problem is with all the women and after delivery it recovers gradually. Must take advice from your doctor.  Juice of fruits, fresh salad, milk and honey is useful for you. In past women used almond shell adding rose water in it at the time of bath. They did oil massage on their body before bath. Village women applied hot real clarified butter (ghee) in their head. They did massage of mustard oil on the body, due to this the hair became stronger and the body did not dry. You do oil massage, after delivery the color will be perfect.

SPOTS ON THE FACE:

In winters, light brown spots are there on my face. The skin under the eye starts to shrink due to this all my face looks bad. Tell any domestic prescription, I can’t use expensive creams, I am 27 years old. (RAINA AMEER)

Advice: Miss Raina! Skin gets dry in winters and due to this face gets wrinkled. You should keep the skin soft. Must drink carrot juice so that your skin remains fine. You should eat oranges and fruiters in winters; you can keep their peels by drying them. And when you need it apply it on the face by soaking them in water. Add few drops of olive oil in it, the face will remain soft. Take one spoon of lemon juice, half spoon of honey, one spoon of rose water and add them and apply it under the eyes where there are wrinkles and brown spots. Do massage slowly. Remember that do massage downward to upward in circular motion. When it gets dry and wash the face with cold water after half an hour and add two drops of olive oil in rose water and apply like a cream on the face.

ROSE TEA:

A gift of roses has been sent to me by someone. I heard that people make tea of it. Tell me about it, what are its benefits and its recipe? (ABDUL REHMAN)

ADVICE: A friend did job in Gilgit. When she came, she gave rose stems or petioles, and different kinds of stones. She said that we do not value rose but the foreigners make its tea. Due to this the seasonal cold does not influence body. Cold and flu ends. For tea squeeze the petioles and take one spoon of petioles, add in the water and cook it. When it gets boil well, put it off and cover it. Then add half spoon lemon juice, one spoon honey, and pinch of black pepper and drink.